Call me before you’re dead; we’ll make some plans instead
Suddenly she appeared at my cubicle, the way she does sometimes when it’s quiet and Friday, when she has nothing to do and figures I shouldn’t either.
“I don’t want you to get freaked out about this,” she said to me, sitting on the edge of my desk. “But here’s the thing: There was this guy in high school, and we used to call him Downy Dave.”
I am good at moderating my responses, while I am at work. I consider it a professional skill. So while inside my head, I might have been thinking something like, Oh Jesus Christ, that’s just fantastic — they had a nickname for a dude with Down’s Syndrome, and now I remind her of him, thanks for sharing, outwardly I simply said, “Oh? Really now.”
But I must have raised an eyebrow, or maybe blinked. Sometimes that’s all it takes.
“I said don’t freak out,” she laughed. “This isn’t a bad thing.”
I tried to flatten my expression. Dead eyes, flat mouth, limp cheeks, no smile, no frown, totally neutral. Vanilla. The non-chocolate Girl Guide cookies. Apparently that is an eloquent gesture too, and she laughed more.
“Stop! Not a bad thing, I said.”
“Okay, all right, I’m sorry,” I said. I brought us back to where we began: “‘Downy Dave’, ‘high school’, you remember him, I remind you of him.”
“Right! Right. So we all knew the guy, whose name was Dave–” (I gave her a flat look again, to express that this much I had gathered on my own) “– shut the hell up, this is taking long enough already. Anyway, the thing about him was that he was a nice-enough looking guy, and he was pleasant enough to talk to, but he always smelled really, really good. Like, insanely good.”
“And I remind you of this?”
“Oh, yeah. Yes. Same exact thing. The thing about Downy Dave was just that he always smelled really clean and fresh and nice, so all the girls would end up clustered around him no matter where he was. If you had a whole cafeteria full of empty tables, and him sitting off to one side, the guy would still have everyone sitting around him. Just… inhaling.”
“Downy Dave.”
“Downy Dave,” she said. “Yes. And you’re just like that. You’ve got that same kind of thing going on.”
“You know,” I said, “I remember one time when I was working in the video store, something like that happened to me. A woman said to me, ‘Wow, you smell really quite good. What is it you’re wearing?’ And I had to sort of stand there and stare at her for a second, because I’ve never worn cologne in my whole life, and I use the most neutral kind of Herbal Essences shampoo because it bugs my eyes. It all ended up taking just that split second too long, and started to get all weird, so finally I said, ‘Uh, Right Guard? …Green?’”
“You did not.”
“I did too, because it was God’s truth. She laughed at me as though I was making fun of her for asking, which was great because it made me come off looking like a smug asshole, instead of a totally confused wad of stupid. But I get that from time to time — girlfriends will smell my neck or something and ask me what I’m wearing. ‘It must be the soap,’ they say, ‘or what you’re washing your clothes in.’ But I’m not especially loyal to any of that, it’s just kind of me.”
“Downy Dave!”
“Downy Dave,” I said. “Who knew.”
“You know,” she concluded, “There’s a study that correlates spouses who have a strong connection to their partners’ scent and longer-lasting marriages.”
“You know,” I said, “I’d probably need a wife before that would do me any good.”
“You’re the one with the pheromones, there, Downy Dave,” she told me. “It’s not up to us how you use them.”
Then she was gone again, just as suddenly as she appeared. It took me a few seconds to realize that she had taken a deep breath as she walked by.
“Junkie!” I called after her.
She laughed all the way back to her desk.
So I'm done having killer mysterious headaches and surprising personal calamities and getting doubly suprising promotions. I Twitter now (peep that HA HA HA see what I did there) and I'm back to blogging, so it's now officially more than you can stand.
cris
April 16th, 2006 at 5:52 pm
you know she does have a point. you do smell like soap-deep-inhaling-good. just go with it.
Lily
April 17th, 2006 at 12:45 am
GREAT.
For someone with a houndblood’s dog nose, who goes around life sniffing and smelling things, this was NOT a good thing to read.
Now I’m wondering….
Tara
April 17th, 2006 at 2:29 pm
I have actually had that happen to me. It reminds me of (and sorry to bring this down a bit here) the “90210″ where someone asked Brandon what he was wearing (cologne-wise) and he looks at her and says, “Tide.”
Mike
April 17th, 2006 at 4:25 pm
Cris: I flexed and flexed but discovered that despite my best efforts, I have no choice but to go with it anyway. But you’re right, I might as well at least embrace it.
Lily: I am also a dangerous rebel, who works out, knows how to cook and yet somehow… still loves his mother.
Tara: Yes, how dare you lower the level of the website where I encourage poop jokes as a form of emotional bonding with a reference to 90210. How declasse.
Cate
April 17th, 2006 at 11:23 pm
The last time I went through Customs, the agent told me I smelled good. It freaked me out because he first asked me what I was wearing, and I was torn between wondering if he was blind, or if he was incredibly stupid and trying to have phone sex with me while I was standing, like, right there in front of him. Then I realized he meant my perfume. Still, creepy?
Dude, now I’m sorry I didn’t sniff you right as soon as we met.
Gwen
April 18th, 2006 at 10:21 am
Cate: But what were you wearing?
Note to self: Go back to Canada and sniff Mike.
Cate
April 19th, 2006 at 7:26 am
Gwen, it was my signature blend of patchouli, Ben-Gay and Love’s Baby Soft. (Actually, some random perfume from duty free).
But is sniffing Mike tax-deductible?
Mike
April 19th, 2006 at 11:08 am
Yes, because it constitutes charity.
Cate
April 20th, 2006 at 12:20 pm
Aw, silly! I wish I worked with nice-smelling people like you.
Craig
April 24th, 2006 at 4:03 pm
You do realize that you’re obligated to use your pheromones to build a private army and take over the world, right?
Tammy
May 10th, 2006 at 2:40 pm
“There’s a study that correlates spouses who have a strong connection to their partners’ scent and longer-lasting marriages.”
Innnnnnteresting. I’ve always liked the way my husband (who relies on nothing more than soap and deodorent) smells, and we’ve been together for seventeen years. Once again, science scores a point.
Lily
May 16th, 2006 at 2:20 am
OK. Here’s the deal:
Either you come up with Lesson #12, or you send a sample of your scent by mail to me (a la perfume samples on magazines).
Pick one, my friend.
Gwen
May 27th, 2006 at 9:49 am
Lily: Shoot, make him do both. Tell that lazy boy to get up off the couch.
Coleen
May 30th, 2006 at 3:37 pm
You know what’s so awesome? When Mike updates.
Oh, wait.
Lily
June 7th, 2006 at 1:33 am
Gwen,
Getting a Mike’s scent sample over the mail, would be every stalker’s dream come true.
Bwah!
Lily
June 7th, 2006 at 1:34 am
Oh, and with that I didn’t mean to imply I’d do that.
No, no. I’d go for the real deal. I go around sniffing people. They just jump scarily and twitch a little, but then they’re ok with it.
Same as when they hear me talk about poop for the first time.
What can I say, I never know where to draw the line.
moose mounty beaver
June 16th, 2006 at 5:21 pm
I bet I smell great too; all the bad smells that come out of me just keep getting in the way